It’s Not You, It’s Me

It’s Not You, It’s Me

Tim Horvath is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in North Carolina and a former employee of CSWC. Throughout the course of therapy, people are often surprised when I advocate for something called “self-focus.” It is difficult for clients to wrap their minds...
Sex and Candy? I prefer Sex and Cookies!

Sex and Candy? I prefer Sex and Cookies!

When you start doing therapy, one of the things that you may notice, and that may even be irritating at times, is that you really don’t get to know much about your therapist. This is by design, as the process of therapy is really about focusing as much as possible on...
More Than Monogamy

More Than Monogamy

What are we?” “What does this mean?” “Is this something my partner will be ok with?” “How do I tell my partner I need something I am not getting?” All of these are valid questions when getting involved with someone, especially sexually. Too often when we start...
How You Define Sex Matters!

How You Define Sex Matters!

What is sex?  Is it about intercourse? Is it about orgasm? Does it include the penis and/or vagina? What is your definition of sex? Does this definition of sex allow you to fully explore and connect with your sexuality or does it limit your expression of...
Let’s Talk About Postpartum Sex!

Let’s Talk About Postpartum Sex!

Relationships change.  We all know this.  But do we really understand what that means?  Relationships can change for a variety of reasons, one of the biggest ones being after a child comes into the family.  A couple can go from having sexual...
It’s Not You, It’s Me

The Myth of True Love

Tim Horvath is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in North Carolina and former employee of CSWC. In the wake of Valentine’s Day, the topic of love lingers like a thick cloud in our cultural air. Ideas about “true love” bombard us in candy hearts, pop songs, and...